A healthy partner doesn’t need you to become smaller so they can feel important.
They create enough safety for both people to grow.
And children don’t need perfect houses or impressive appearances nearly as much as they need homes filled with ordinary kindness, laughter, respect, and security.
When someone leaves, it can feel like they took your future with them.
They didn’t.
Your future was never theirs to own.
Eventually, there comes a day when seeing someone who once hurt you no longer produces anger.
Or sadness.
Or even the