I Thought Putting My Husband in a Nursing Home Was the Only Choice, Until I Found What He’d Been Keeping in His Nightstand

to let you disappear inside Dad’s illness.”

Her voice became firm.

“He literally wrote you a letter telling you not to do that. I’m going to hold you to it.”

Then she opened another folder.

Karen already had a plan.

She had spent months researching professional home-health services.

Certified aides could come to our house for four-hour or eight-hour shifts.

Two aides could alternate days.

Six days of help every week.

David could stay home.

I could sleep.

I could eat.

I could leave the house.

And according to Karen’s