I took care of my 85-year-old neighbor

told stories about her younger years—working in a bookstore, losing her husband young, learning how loneliness changes shape as you age.

And somehow, I started telling her things too.

Things I never told anyone.

About foster homes.

About learning not to attach too deeply.

About living paycheck to paycheck because planning for a future felt arrogant when survival already took everything you had.

One evening, she muted the television suddenly.

“You only think about surviving next month,” she said.

I shrugged.

“That’s usually the important part.”

“No,” she replied sharply. “