My daughter-in-law pushed a stack of greasy plates into my hands and said, “Could you finish these? My mother prefers her wine chilled.”

rang.

David stood outside holding a small grocery-store bouquet.

No emergency.

No request.

Just flowers.

“Hi, Mom.”

“Hello.”

“I wanted to see the kitchen.”

I let him in.

He slowly looked around.

“Wow.”

I smiled.

“You like it?”

“It looks amazing.”

We spent the next hour drinking coffee at my new island.

He talked about work.

I told him about a photography trip to Arizona I was taking with my friend Susan.

He didn’t ask for money.

He didn’t ask me to babysit.

When he stood to leave, he looked