My daughter-in-law pushed a stack of greasy plates into my hands and said, “Could you finish these? My mother prefers her wine chilled.”

to Arizona.

We photographed red rocks at sunrise, ate terrible roadside pie outside Sedona, and spent an afternoon cheerfully debating whether a cactus looked dignified or annoyed.

I sent David pictures.

He replied:

Looks incredible, Mom. Have fun.

No request followed.

I stared at the message longer than necessary.

It felt ordinary.

That was exactly why I loved it.

Before all this, I believed being a good mother meant remaining endlessly available.

I thought generosity proved love and mistook silence for peace because silence was easier than disappointing people.

But