My neighbor let her dog use my lawn as a toilet every morning for six months and never cleaned up once — I stayed polite until she made one comment I couldn’t forget, and by the next morning I’d taught her a lesson without raising my voice once.

“Thank you for saying that.”

She hesitated.

“And the meeting.”

I waited.

“What I said wasn’t really about some general concern. I know that.”

“I knew that too.”

She looked down.

“I was having a bad week. That isn’t an excuse. Just context.”

I thought about what I actually wanted.

I didn’t need humiliation.

I didn’t need revenge.

I didn’t need her begging for forgiveness.

I wanted her to understand.

And stop.

From what I had already seen that morning, she had.

“Marguerite,” I said, “we’ve lived beside each other