My neighbor tore up my lawn with his motorcycle and acted like it was nothing — the next morning, a little “surprise” was waiting for him.

was the same smile I had noticed the first time we met at a church social in 1968.

Every anniversary, Roy brought me red and yellow flowers.

Every single year.

For forty-one years.

I looked at the garden again.

“This might be the most beautiful thing anyone has ever made for me.”

Roy shrugged.

“It’s just a garden.”

“No,” I said. “It isn’t.”

And despite what he said, I knew he understood.

Roy died in March of 2011.

He was sixty-seven.

That still feels far too young.

Of course, I