My parents refused to care for my younger kids while I tended to my oldest with leukemia; I called my ex-husband, but he said: “You’re just a poor writer, deal with it”

even though she knew.

I explained that Kora was hospitalized again, that it was serious, and that I needed help with Theo and Wyatt so I could stay with her.

There was a small laugh.

Not really a laugh.

Then Belle said the sentence I would carry for the next year.

“You’re just a poor writer. Deal with it.”

The line went muffled as if she covered the phone.

Then Mark came on for exactly one sentence.

“Now’s not a good time for us,” he said.

“Not a good time