My parents refused to care for my younger kids while I tended to my oldest with leukemia; I called my ex-husband, but he said: “You’re just a poor writer, deal with it”

seventy-eight-year-old widowed neighbor, was lonely in the particular way that makes some people generous.

She took Theo and Wyatt most mornings and refused the money I tried to leave on her counter.

So I began slipping it into her newspaper instead.

Dennis, the hospital social worker, found us a room in family lodging near the oncology unit, the kind of place designed for parents who can’t afford hotels and can’t bear to drive home every night.

I worked outside Kora’s hospital room at two in the morning, laptop balanced on