My parents refused to care for my younger kids while I tended to my oldest with leukemia; I called my ex-husband, but he said: “You’re just a poor writer, deal with it”

had medicine so it wouldn’t.

She nodded like a manager approving a plan.

Then one day, she caught me writing on my yellow legal pad.

“Mama, are you sad when you write about me?”

I hadn’t told her I was writing about her.

I wasn’t sure I had admitted it to myself.

But she had noticed me looking at her over the page.

Kids see everything.

I said, “Sometimes, but mostly I’m glad because it means I get to keep you on paper, too.”

She thought about that.

“Then write