My parents refused to care for my younger kids while I tended to my oldest with leukemia; I called my ex-husband, but he said: “You’re just a poor writer, deal with it”

day, I was a mother making pancakes, buying science-fair supplies, and learning how to be the only parent of two boys instead of three children.

At night, I was the woman with the pencil.

I did not write to publish.

I want that clear.

I wrote to breathe.

The pages stacked up on my kitchen table.

Slowly, without asking me, they began to take a shape.

If you have lost somebody and the words feel trapped behind your teeth, let me tell you what Angela told me.

Write one true