My parents refused to care for my younger kids while I tended to my oldest with leukemia; I called my ex-husband, but he said: “You’re just a poor writer, deal with it”

own words to her.

“You told me I chose this life,” I said. “And don’t make it yours. You were right about one thing. I did choose it. I chose these boys and I chose their sister and I chose to show up. So here’s the difference between us. I chose this life and I won’t make it yours.”

My mother opened her mouth.

Nothing came out.

Finally, I turned toward Belle.

She was still trying to shape her face into something that might reach me.

“You want to know