it.
You don’t even need them to thank you.
You just did something useful for another person.
That’s enough.
The Person Who Refuses Isn’t Automatically a Bad Person Either
At the same time, I don’t think refusing automatically makes someone cruel.
Maybe they had a bad back.
Maybe they were worried about getting hurt.
Maybe they had their own heavy bag.
Maybe they simply didn’t want to.
That’s allowed.
We’re all allowed to have boundaries.
The issue, for me, is the attitude.
You can say no without making someone feel
