My parents refused to care for my younger kids while I tended to my oldest with leukemia; I called my ex-husband, but he said: “You’re just a poor writer, deal with it”

so our final minutes belonged to us instead of the machine.

I won’t tell you the rest.

That part is mine.

I’ll tell you only that afterward the room was very still.

Gray sunlight was starting to enter through the blinds.

A young resident asked me gently if there was anyone they could call.

Anyone who should be there.

I almost laughed.

Because the honest answer was no.

The people you call are the people who come.

And I had spent that month learning exactly who came and who watched