When We Were 19, My Best Friend and I Promised That If We Were Both Single at 60, We’d Find Each Other – I Turned 60 Last Tuesday, and My Old Landline Rang

For most of my life, I convinced myself that some people were meant to remain in the past, no matter how badly you once wished they could have stayed in your future.

Then, after forty-one years, I heard a voice say my name.

“Ruthie.”

And suddenly, every year between us disappeared.

I was standing outside a hospital room with one hand resting on the door.

Forty-one years.

That was how long it had been since I had seen Jeffrey.

Forty-one years since his final letter.

Forty-one years since he had