My daughter-in-law pushed a stack of greasy plates into my hands and said, “Could you finish these? My mother prefers her wine chilled.”

Dinner was pleasant enough if you ignored the hierarchy hidden beneath casual conversation.

Brenda discussed a cruise, Rachel complained about a coworker, and David mostly listened while cutting Leo’s chicken.

Whenever I tried telling a story, Rachel found a way to interrupt without technically being rude.

I mentioned an exhibit at the local art museum.

“Oh, Mom would love that,” Rachel said, immediately turning toward Brenda. “Remember that gallery in Boston?”

Just like that, my sentence disappeared.

I wasn’t angry.

That came later.

What I felt was smaller and sadder: